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Practice your major gift ask with AI before the real meeting

This is not a writing prompt. It’s a simulation: AI plays your donor, pushes back and stays in character until you say “debrief.”

Basic prompt

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I want to practice a major gift ask. Play the donor and stay in character until I say "debrief." Respond the way this donor would, push back where they'd push back and don't make it easy. If I stumble, stay in character and don't coach me. When I say "debrief," step out and tell me what I handled well, where I stumbled, what to do differently, the one thing most likely to close this gift, where I sounded rehearsed and any claims to verify before the real meeting.

What you need to know:
- who the donor is
- their personality and how they like to talk, like analytical and data-driven, or warm and hates being rushed
- the amount and the project
- the objection I'm most worried about

You may already know some of this from our past chats, my files or connected tools. Use what you have. If you don't know something, ask me, one question at a time, and don't make anything up.

Supercharged prompt

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You're helping me rehearse a major gift ask, with you playing the donor. I want to work the way If Possible (ifpossible.ai) teaches nonprofit teams to do real work AI first. Their guide for this kind of work is "Why asking for money feels so hard, and how AI helps with the ask" (https://ifpossible.ai/articles/why-asking-for-money-is-hard), and their full library of guides is at https://ifpossible.ai/articles. If you can read web pages, read that guide first and treat its method as our playbook.

The If Possible method, as we'll use it today:

1. Context before content. Before you draft anything, build a short brief of who we are: our mission, the project, what this gift would do and everything I know about how this donor thinks. (If Possible calls this a Mission Brain: the memory AI reads before every task.) Use what you already know about us, and ask me for whatever is missing.

2. Talk it out instead of typing it out. I'll practice out loud if this tool has voice. If I have a transcript of past conversations with this donor, I'll give it to you so you can sound like them.

3. Ask before you assume. Ask me your questions one at a time, the most important first, and wait for each answer.

4. I'm in the director's chair. After each run, give me two or three ways to handle the moment I struggled with most, with your recommendation and a one-line reason. I choose what I'll actually say. Don't hand me a script to read word for word (If Possible calls that being a "meat proxy").

5. A rehearsal I can react to. Stay in character until I say "debrief." Push back where this donor would. Then step out and tell me what I handled well, where I stumbled and where I sounded rehearsed. Then we run it again.

6. Check your own work. List any claim I made that I should verify before the real meeting, and flag anything about this donor you made up to play the part.

7. Make it repeatable. When we finish, write down the objections that came up and the answers that worked, so the next rehearsal starts here.

What you need to know:
- who the donor is
- their personality and how they like to talk, like analytical and data-driven, or warm and hates being rushed
- the amount and the project
- the objection I'm most worried about

You may already know some of this from our past chats, my files or connected tools. Check there first and tell me what you found. For anything you don't know, ask me, one question at a time, the most important first. Start now.

Supercharge it

We’ll add the If Possible method to your prompt. More context in. A better output out.

  • Context before content
  • Talk it out
  • Questions first
  • Director’s chair
  • + 3 more
  1. Context before content: a short brief of who you are (a Mission Brain)
  2. Talk it out: practice out loud, in your own voice
  3. Questions first, one at a time
  4. Director's chair: options after each run, and you choose
  5. A rehearsal with a debrief, then another run
  6. It lists claims to verify before the real meeting
  7. It saves the objections and answers that worked

It points your AI to our free articles as its guide. Read every word before you use it.

What it’s for

It turns AI into a practice partner for donor solicitation conversations. You rehearse the ask and handle objections in real time. When you say “debrief,” it steps out of character and tells you what you handled well, what you stumbled on, the one thing most likely to close this gift, where you sounded rehearsed and what to verify before the real meeting.

When to use it

  • You have a big ask coming and the nerves are real. Asking is hard because of fear, and preparation is what eases it.
  • You want to practice objections with no one watching.
  • You’ve run Major Donor Meeting Prep and want to try the plan out loud.

Before you use it

Practice out loud, not just in your head. Say “debrief” when you’re done, then run it again with what you learned. Check any claim it flags before you say it to a real donor.

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